You have hidden or open fantasies you would like to explore? Bondage, spanking, candle wax, whipping… Domination/submission or role play… Great! I love all of it, and I love guiding you in your fantasies. Exactly what such fantasies look like is very individual, and we will first take time to talk about your personal fantasies. There are various reasons for being fascinated by BDSM. Expanding and exploring your own sexuality. Being able to let yourself go completely. Difficulties feeling yourself. Healing emotional and traumatic wounds. Exploring fantasies. Simply having fun…

A slap on the butt (called “Spanking”) is a form of touching, even if it is much more intense than a soft stroke for example. Yet, with presence and consciousness it can be just as loving. Some people don’t enjoy softness, or the feeling is not intense enough. Spanking (or a whip or flogger) can help to really feel yourself and re-connect with your body. For others, it may be associated with childhood experiences. With mindfulness and in a protected environment, spanking can help to work through bad experiences. Any kind of emotion is welcome and save with me.

Bondage also contains many aspects of surrender and being able to let yourself go. It may also create a strong feeling of being held by extended arms (ropes).

And surely, spanking, bondage and all kinds of BDSM are also very pleasurable, creating a fantastic and wonderful experience. I personally love being pulled by my hair, for example.

I’m not a traditional domina in leather and heels. Consciousness, mindfulness, and a save, loving environment are very important for me – that’s why I call it a “ritual”. Creating a space where traumas can heal, and transformation can happen. And most certainly, it is also about fun and pleasure.